PICK  and  Dussy…

Back to Basics
MENace’s : Have you ever had a girl that you loved having sex with but didn’t want to make your girl?
­­­Now days there is a whole lot of talk about “B. U. D. D. Y.’s” and beneficial friends. Which on the good side has gotten females realizing that sex is not just a privilege only for their man, but that a regular buddy can do a body good. But, more often than not guys have been facing a situation where after a few weeks of BEATING it DOWN these same females who act cool in the beginning start trying to LOCK them DOWN! This is a serious problem, and guys are feeling like they have little or no options. Some of us either drop our regular pussy at the risk of not being single any more; and others give in, in dread of going through a sex drought: that can cause pain and soaked sheets.
Have you ever wondered why: When you have a girl is when you get the most ass thrown your way!
There is a simple concept behind that: You are not Desperate like a dog in heat. When you’ve got some reliable ass at your disposal you really could care less if that chick in the club gives you the right number, or if she’ll pick up when you call.
But when you don’t have that regular pussy, and its been about two weeks since you’ve gotten some, you will have D-E-S-P-E-R-A-T-E  written across your chest like a super-hero and your mission is to hunt and capture some ass at all costs! Not only do you start thinking of every girl you meet as a potential, but you become overly eager because you know its gonna take at least two weeks of knowing a girl, or three dates/chill sessions to get into them draws. So you go out on a Friday and meet a girl you wouldn’t mind getting into, and you get her number…when you haven’t gotten any in a while your dumb ass is liable to call her or text her right after the club to say some sweet shit like: “It was nice meeting you” or “Hope you get home safe” Mean while she’s showing her girls how sprung you are. At that point your get some sex as soon as possible plan went out the window.
AHH!!! So We guys realize something! “Regular Pussy Improves Our Game!” When we know we aren’t dying for some booty you wont call that girl til one of your boys mentions “have you talked to that thick girl you got the number from last Friday yet?” and then you’ll remember “Damn I haven’t hit her up yet.” Which at that point home-girl you bought a few drinks for in the club remembers what a cool guy you are and is wondering when your going to call her.
But the topic at hand here is not how to bag another girl but to keep the “friend with benefits” you got going. There are a few easy steps that any man can follow….results….may…vary…some bitches are crazy!
The Set Up:
Most girls will ask key questions between the first and about the fifth time that you chill.
“So…do you like being single?”
“Do you have a lot of female friends?”
“Do you go out a lot?”
Here are some answers that should make you seem like a nice guy but not quite a boyfriend candidate.
“I try to enjoy every situation in life, anyways, right now I am focusing on so many projects that I don’t know if I could be a good boyfriend, and I try to be the best at everything I do.
I have friends, but I wouldn’t say a lot, I like meeting new people, that’s what life is about.
I try to lead a balanced life, I work hard so I do like to get out and enjoy myself.
Now of course you don’t have to use these lines word for word, but the key is to express your freedom yet an open attitude towards other options. Remember even hoes like to feel romanced a little. Just make sure you let it be known in the sweetest way possible you are happy with your life as a single man, and you and her are just cool, seeing where things will go.

The Hook:
This may be the most crucial part to this process…once you finally do hit it, you’ve got to make it Great! I would always hear my sister talk to her friends about men that cheat on them and they keep going back to them. For the first few years I would wonder why these sexy ass women wouldn’t wake up and dump these dudes. My sister finally let me in on the secret….Great Sex. It works on us guys too. Now we are not immune, good head can get you to buy a diamond ring. So every time you do it you have to not just get yours make sure she gets hers too.
p.s. If your wack in bed don’t even try this or just accept that you will always be a one hit wonder.

Maintaining:
Don’t’s: “if you do any of these things females will think you care much more than you really do.”
Take her out for special occasions!
Don’t take her to meet your family!
Don’t have her chill with you and your boys outside of the club.
Don’t talk on the phone for extended times, or leave voicemails.
Don’t kiss, hold hands, or hug in public.
Don’t buy anything but: drinks, blockbuster rentals, or take out food.
Don’t argue.
Do’s:” if you do these things you’ll still seem like a nice guy.”
I’ve got to say this again: Great Sex!
Do text message her.
Do go over to her house more than she comes to yours.
Do listen to her talk about stuff you don’t care about.
Do act like a good friend.
Do encourage her to chill with her girls.
Do compliment her. Tell her she is sexy, not beautiful.

Drama Alert:
It is evitable , unless your doin’ it with some one else’s girl, or she’s a hoe. That your BUDDY will start hinting at being your girl, or just come right out and say it. This is where a good “Setup” can save you.
How ever you are asked “what the situation is?” , “where is this going?” or “what are we?” Refer to your Set up!
Remain calm while explaining how you feel: “I thought we talked about this? I just don’t think that with what I’ve got going on I can commit to something that will require so much of me.” She will feel like she already knew this from the get go, and you have totally avoided the question. If you say much else you will sound dumb so keep it short simple, and again refer to your Set Up.
Sometimes your BUDDY will try to cut you off if you’re not getting with her program, in that case refer to the Hook! If your sex is amazing she wont be gone for long. Females have needs too, and most of them don’t want to add unnecessary numbers. Your job is to back off and take a friend position. Call about once a week to just talk normal, and drop hints about missing her company and how maybe the two of you could chill.  Soon enough she’ll give in…but only if she knows your sex is Great.
The Close:
Eventually your Buddy is going to find a man, and when that happens be prepared to back off or step up to the plate.
That’s about all I’m going to say about this topic for now, I hope these tips can help any one out there…and ladies don’t worry we got something coming for you too.